About to give birth!


This is a slightly different email.

Because we're about to step through a door.

A door that many people have stepped through in the past.

But even though many have been through this experience...

it's still so... Uncertain.

A tiny human will emerge into this world when passing through this door.

It feels like a completely different reality

Surreal.

Scary? For sure.

I need to keep reminding myself that billions of people have been through this before. And almost all of them survived and did great.

I wonder why, even though it's normal to feel this fear, it hasn't prevented us from trying to have a baby.

Oftentimes, people don't take action because of this fear.

Although, with having kids, it seems like human nature is overpowering.

But in the end it's still the same feeling...

Fear: FALSE. EVIDENCE. APPEARING. REAL

Everything will work out in the end. That's what we just need to remind ourselves of.

Fear is just an illusion of a potential future that may or may not happen.

And even if the worst case occurs, you'll get through it.

Many people have been through worse things and done alright.

So don't let fear hold you back from doing what you really want in life, ever.

I love this quote:

"The quality of your life is directly related to how much uncertainty you can comfortably handle." - Tony Robbins

Continue overcoming fear.

Make your Chinese fluency/dreams happen.

Much love,

Zhifei Zhang and Oskar Woehr - co-CEOs of Xiaogua Chinese and Polyglots

PS: here are 3 ways we can help you speak Chinese comfortably in the next 6-12 months

1. Watch our "Most effective Learning Methods" playlist to become a better learner

2. Immerse yourself in real life Chinese stories sorted by level here: https://www.xiaoguachinese.com/​

3. Get personalized speaking training and conversation practice to become fluent by setting up your fluency strategy session here​

PPS:

Zhifei is due in about 10 days...

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